It Is What It Is – Explanation Needed

I have a friend who often says, “It is what it is.” That is a matter of fact statement. Nothing can be changed or edited. Is life is set and we have no choices or control?

I do agree that many situations, due to the selfishness of other people, determines your relationship with them. You cannot move toward a deeper relationship if you cannot connect with their mind or heart. They have basically said, “It is what it is and I don’t care to look deeper or make changes.”

For the most part, we can choose to change our minds or our actions. We must look forward into a brighter day. We may want to be risky and try something we have always wanted to do. I’m not sure if climbing a mountain or learning how to sky-dive is always the best route once you’re over 50 but some people do it well. More power goes to those who try, who reach out, who want life to be the best it can be. You can have that power much of the time.

Surround yourself with positive people who find ways to fulfill their days, who find deep thought and comfort in living their faith. These types of people give to you as they gain from your shared hearts.

It isn’t always what it can be. The potential is amazing; waiting for you to grab it.

Find your vine and swing like you mean it!

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Love that you’ve stopped by.  Bloom.

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What If We Had Never Met?

What if… we had never met?

What if… our hearts had never touched? What if…we had never had the chance to share truth and care? What if… we are bonded in one faith? What if… we see the light through the eyes of each other?

What if…someone near us is frightened and we feel helpless?

What if… love could overcome? What if…sorrow would not abound? What if…hurt and disappointment did not prevail? 

What if…we connected with strength and stood for what we believe in?

What if…we knew hope and God‘s will would always finish first – and win?

What if… we are certain that His grace will always endure?

What if… we touched the hearts of other’s as we have experienced – from others today?

What a difference we can make! Bloom.

 

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Mind, Body, Spirit – Do They Need Unity?

Have you ever wondered what you’d be doing in five years? More importantly, have you ever wondered how your thinking might change? Most surprisingly, we think differently or we drastically change our habits. There is not much of the time that we radically change our beliefs. We can grow into a stronger personal faith or belief system. We sometimes choose new hobbies or build what we know into higher intensity learning.

What would you change if you could? If your path is moving in one direction and you want to change it, how would you do it? Through research and study we can increase our awareness and abilities. Sometimes it just takes experience to make us into a fuller thinking and living human being.

Thinking deeply about our mind, body and spirit and how they connect is very popular these days. How does your mind and attitudes affect your health and your spirit? If your mind is clear and always curious you can make better choices in health, food plans and lifestyle. If your health is excellent you probably have a better attitude than someone who is ill. As you age, is it affecting your health or your spirit? I know many people who become increasingly despondent as their birthdays roll by. They realize that they are going downhill and losing muscle strength or mobility. Some people see aging as a detriment to their spirits when they should feel privileged to have experienced life for such a long time.

It is no fun to get older, unless you are sixteen, but it is a time when our attitudes should lift others. Through knowledge, education and experience we offer benefit to others. When you share your wisdom of life with younger people you can help them to avoid the pitfalls and roadblocks of life. If they listen they are so much richer in using mind, body and spirit to their advantage.

The spiritual sense of us has to have some grounding. What is yours? We must search and realize that we will only be human for a few years. When you think of the scope of life compared to eternity, it is very short. To us it may seem that seventy years is a long time, until we get there. I’ve been told that time never slows down unless you’re sick and it feels like an eternity. Keeping our mind, body and spirit in connection is vital. My choices include faith and trust in my Creator to help me be what he has chosen for me. He is in control but I can have a better attitude every day. I can share joy with others. I can listen and sympathize when someone needs their body, mind or spirit lightened.

Make your body, mind and spirit synonymous with the unity we are to strive for.

Bloom every day in every way! It’s up to you. Please read Bloom Girl Bloom (Real Women with Real Answers) – To inspire and lift you. To challenge and encourage you. 

 

~Women Walking Together in Spite of Their Pain~

The lives that women are living are directed most often by their circumstances. Happiness or sorrow, tragedy and abuse, kindness and exceptional parents define our paths. Decisions of faith and choices we’ve made are links to life for us. Love that’s sustained or been lost changes perceived destiny. Broken hearts are prevalent in many lives and the pain changes us.

Let’s walk together to find the path of fragrant enlightenment and trails of beautiful petals to guide our way. We can live our divine purpose. We will prove accomplishments in daily growth and plans for now and the future. Bloom more fully every day. 

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Everyone Has A Story – Start here

Everyone has a story to tell. Karina, Brandi, Mary, Eve, Dani, Elaina, and many more. Some are very difficult to tell and for us to hear, while others are seemingly uneventful. The key word being seemingly. The lives that women are living are due to the circumstances of happiness, sorrow, tragedy, abuse, kindnesses, exceptional parents, faith. We must not forget the choices they’ve made and love that’s sustained or been lost. I believe that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don’t even know you. My upcoming book tells of these adventures, quotes and thoughts. Thank you for following me. More to come.