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It Is What It Is – Explanation Needed

I have a friend who often says, “It is what it is.” That is a matter of fact statement. Nothing can be changed or edited. Is life is set and we have no choices or control?

I do agree that many situations, due to the selfishness of other people, determines your relationship with them. You cannot move toward a deeper relationship if you cannot connect with their mind or heart. They have basically said, “It is what it is and I don’t care to look deeper or make changes.”

For the most part, we can choose to change our minds or our actions. We must look forward into a brighter day. We may want to be risky and try something we have always wanted to do. I’m not sure if climbing a mountain or learning how to sky-dive is always the best route once you’re over 50 but some people do it well. More power goes to those who try, who reach out, who want life to be the best it can be. You can have that power much of the time.

Surround yourself with positive people who find ways to fulfill their days, who find deep thought and comfort in living their faith. These types of people give to you as they gain from your shared hearts.

It isn’t always what it can be. The potential is amazing; waiting for you to grab it.

Find your vine and swing like you mean it!

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