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Posted by on March 6, 2012 in Womens lives and issues

 

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It Is What It Is – Explanation Needed

I have a friend who often says, “It is what it is.” That is a matter of fact statement. Nothing can be changed or edited. Is life is set and we have no choices or control?

I do agree that many situations, due to the selfishness of other people, determines your relationship with them. You cannot move toward a deeper relationship if you cannot connect with their mind or heart. They have basically said, “It is what it is and I don’t care to look deeper or make changes.”

For the most part, we can choose to change our minds or our actions. We must look forward into a brighter day. We may want to be risky and try something we have always wanted to do. I’m not sure if climbing a mountain or learning how to sky-dive is always the best route once you’re over 50 but some people do it well. More power goes to those who try, who reach out, who want life to be the best it can be. You can have that power much of the time.

Surround yourself with positive people who find ways to fulfill their days, who find deep thought and comfort in living their faith. These types of people give to you as they gain from your shared hearts.

It isn’t always what it can be. The potential is amazing; waiting for you to grab it.

Find your vine and swing like you mean it!

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Love that you’ve stopped by.  Bloom.

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Awareness of Who You Think You Should Be… Is it Possible?

If you wonder who you could be, but don’t know how to get there, imagine your dreams.  You can move forward toward a better you, a more creative you or a smarter you by taking the necessary steps.

Although life sometimes gets in our way, we must know where we want to go and move forward. Take baby steps and be aware of what may lay ahead if you follow your dreams. If you never move or change or grow, you can never become who you think you are.

Do you envision what you want your life to look like? Take that vision and either get the education or be mentored by someone who can help you reach your stars. When people lose their dreams it is often because they have not kept their eyes on the prize. They sometimes give up and don’t persevere due to circumstances surrounding them. You must forge ahead and step into an attitude of hope and possibility.

Awareness of who we think we can be is not always easy. It looks difficult to grow into a better human being, become more informed or choose more commitment to to our faith and to find truth. To love others and reach out in service takes time and energy. Is there room in your life to help others? I guarantee it will help your own growth. Get your family involved in doing for others and in thinking of others ahead of themselves. When we give, we get in return, huge blessings.

A man recently told me that helping others who do not appreciate it makes him tired and sad. They take his generosity for granted and made light of his gestures. Can we blame him? I have felt the same way many times. We do have to test in small ways who really wants our help and who truly wants to learn to change. Help those who will move forward and be appreciative if you can.

Awareness of who you think you should be is in knowing why we are here. Why did God put you here? What does he expect from you? What is our responsibility to his creation? The central theme of our source of energy, duty, love and compassion come from someone so much greater than who we can ever be. But, remember that we can improve, love, grow and stretch every day into a more productive and compassionate human being.

Be aware of the possibilities of your abilities and what you can do to ignite them. You are what you think you are but you can experience amazing abundant living.  Do not settle. Plant seeds, grow and blossom more each day! Pass it on to those who need inspiration. Mentor a child. Give to your church or your charity and thank God that you can do it. If all you have to give is love, what is holding you back from giving? Bloom!

 

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I’ve Learned That………by Andy Rooney

  • I’ve learned …
  • that when you’re in love, it shows.
  • that just one person saying to me, “You’ve made my day!” makes my day.
  • that having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.
  • that being kind is more important than being right.
  • that you should never say no to a gift from a child.
  • that I can always pray for someone when I don’t have the strength to help him in some other way.
  • that no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
  • that sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.
  • that it’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
  • that under everyone’s hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
  • that to ignore the facts does not change the facts.
  • that when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
  • that love, not time, heals all wounds.
  • that everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.
  • that no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
  • that opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.
  • that when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.
  • that I wish I could have told my Dad that I love him one more time before he passed away.
  • that one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.
  • that a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
  • that I can’t choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.
  • that everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.
  • that it is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is requested and when it is a life threatening situation.

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  • Thanks for stopping by. Be blessed and bloom. 
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Inflexibility – Moving On to Plan B

Women don’t usually  speak of small adaptations in life, those go without saying. Things happen;  accidents, life changes, geographical moves of the family, miscarriages, job changes, more twists and turns, surprise unplanned  children, love lost and the list continues. We learn to be very adaptable people. We have sufficiency in life to move and grow and plan and re-plan. Moving forward with Plan B is so important. Being productive is the key.

Sometimes Plan A doesn’t work out but to enjoy happiness – flexibility is a must. You will see another exercise of flexibility, of endurance, or the working of Plan B when someone becomes ill, changes jobs, moves locations or meets someone new. When women become inflexible they are not agreeable.

Get over yourself if you can’t just be agreeable most of the time. If you can give a sense of calm in an overwhelming world, if you can lose yourself to help someone have calm, do it.

Commit to thinking before acting and realizing that everyone has the right to their thoughts and actions. Be flexible with them. Show them love and consideration, not judgment and resistance to change. They’ll love you for it!.. Be brave.. be flexible..chill.  Bloom every day in every way!

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Courage is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm” – Winston Churchill

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