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When You Think You Are Not Beautiful…

There are times in our lives whether you are outwardly attractive or not, that you may feel unattractive. Many people have such confidence and self-esteem that they always feel valuable. Do you?

Project strength with humility, confidence with curiosity and love without expectations. You will feel beautiful from the inside out. When you look at others, count your blessings. Be appreciative and know that real beauty shines from your soul, your eyes and your heart.

There are ways to make ourselves more attractive. There are helps along the way. We can enhance our natural looks and expand our physical beauty. But, if we do not show what we are inside as beautiful, no amount of work on our face and body, can shine like real goodness.

I knew a man who would not be considered extremely attractive to look at but as soon as he opened his mouth, sincerity and care poured from his heart. He never knew a stranger. He lifted everyone up who was around him. He cared and it showed. He loved without being asked. He spoke words of love, appreciation and respect.  What a legacy. His personality was engaging, addictive and everyone wanted his friendship. He wore his faith on his sleeve and told everyone about the love and trust of God that through him. He was inspiring and encouraging. Some people are rather good at faking their care, but this man was genuine. His sincerity was obvious. When people say that he was ‘one of a kind’ let’s challenge that and become a better friend by offering consideration and concern along with a smile and encouragement.

This man was a light to others and if we can just take the teachings of his life and own them, we win. Everyone around us will benefit. People will love your company. They will want our advise and friendships. They will almost envy the ease of which we can smile and show compassion. Let’s strive toward a friendlier, happier, better attitude, every day. Let’s offer others a smile, a helping hand, a day of kindnesses and a hug when they need it.

Let’s thrive in making others happy. Let’s project real beauty, light and exceptional attitude to uplift others. Be their source so that they may know your source. God’s reflection is all about shining his love so that we might live in his path for us. You are beautiful. You are valuable. You are worthy. God does not make junk. Search and find the truth of His love, of your purpose and of your heart’s desires.

Love. .. Give.. Shine… Grow… Bloom.

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When I am consumed by my problems- stressed out about my life, my family, and my job …….

When I am consumed by my problems- stressed out about my life, my family, and my job ………………………..      I actually convey the belief that I think the circumstances are more important than God’s command to always rejoice. Crazy Love by Francis Chan

 

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Change When You Grow

We can only grow by learning and experience. We can only improve and change when we grow.

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Inflexibility – Moving On to Plan B

Women don’t usually  speak of small adaptations in life, those go without saying. Things happen;  accidents, life changes, geographical moves of the family, miscarriages, job changes, more twists and turns, surprise unplanned  children, love lost and the list continues. We learn to be very adaptable people. We have sufficiency in life to move and grow and plan and re-plan. Moving forward with Plan B is so important. Being productive is the key.

Sometimes Plan A doesn’t work out but to enjoy happiness – flexibility is a must. You will see another exercise of flexibility, of endurance, or the working of Plan B when someone becomes ill, changes jobs, moves locations or meets someone new. When women become inflexible they are not agreeable.

Get over yourself if you can’t just be agreeable most of the time. If you can give a sense of calm in an overwhelming world, if you can lose yourself to help someone have calm, do it.

Commit to thinking before acting and realizing that everyone has the right to their thoughts and actions. Be flexible with them. Show them love and consideration, not judgment and resistance to change. They’ll love you for it!.. Be brave.. be flexible..chill.  Bloom every day in every way!

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Courage is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm” – Winston Churchill

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