Like fireworks or paint on a canvas you have the options in life to make changes. Choice is yours. Elevate your life into satisfying options.

I have been a bit of a risk-taker. Some challenges were bigger than I imagined, although it wasn’t performing surgery or walking the Appalachian trail. Some were fulfilling, some where not well-thought out, others were successful and productive.

Live life as though it matters and make your statement of courage, of creativity and integrity.

Too many people say, “I can’t.” That phrase just kills me!

Ok, I say it when I have to remember the punchline of a joke. NO talent there!

 Change your thoughts and words to “I can.” You may not be a master at whatever you choose to try – but you have begun. Your thought process will lead you to action. Your action will lead to results and a feeling of accomplishment. Do you want to learn a new language? Do you want to paint a picture or fix the faucet? Have you dreamed of learning to play an instrument or teaching little children how to read? Is your passion for adult learning and education?

Whatever you have wanted to do – elevate to that level. Begin somewhere. Start. Figure it out. Your only regret would be if you never try. Elevate your thoughts. If you think you are not responsible for your thoughts – think again. Your thoughts lead to your actions and trigger your decisions.

Do me a favor and do yourself a bigger favor-

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Live your own life. Make it the best it can be. Living through someone else or a fantasy life does not get you to your maximum fulfillment.

Watching reality TV shows has become an addiction for many people. They live vicariously through other people or enjoy the entertainment value. Do we take these participants seriously? Do we wonder if it is all staged? Cameras can tell a much larger story or leave out vital chapters.

Living like the Kardashians or the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills is impossible for most women today. Do you see value in their lives? How about morality? Honesty and integrity? Do you see fun and wish it were you? You also have to buy into their life philosophies if you want their lives. It is their right to be who they are and show it to the world. More importantly, being ignited from the inside, as ships that sail our own course and inspire others, is essential.

A famous person is quoted saying, “I wish all people could be rich and famous in their lifetime and then they would see it’s not the answer.” When women wish they were someone else, it disturbs me. Of course, a better income and an easier path might be advantageous but what can they learn along the way?

 Live your own life fully and richly. Work on the inside. Let your own light shine. Don’t follow someone else. Reaching for stars that are not in your orbit just weighs you down and tires you out. Living with dreams of being someone else will not get you to your personal heights. You will not be happy. Choose authenticity, values, truth, love, care and compassion with those you touch every day. Be someone who gleams with value.

Others will envy your being, your life, your attitude and truth. Help them live into their best. Show them that whatever life has for them is enough – although dreams and opportunity are on every corner. Explore. Reach. Be happy with who you were created to be. You can always be a ‘better, more productive, more creative you’... but BE – YOU. Life is unique because you are here. Earth is better because you exist. God is pleased when we follow His plan for us.

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Every woman deserves a man who calls her baby, kisses her like he means it, holds her like he never wants to let her go, doesn’t cheat or lie. Wipes her tears when she cries, doesn’t make her jealous of other women, instead makes other women jealous of her, is not scared to let his friends know how he feels about her, and lets her know how much he really loves her.

These are run-on sentences for sure but you get it.

I do not know who wrote this – probably a woman-  but it is powerful and very sweet.  

Treat others the way you wish to be treated. It can change both lives!

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Unhappy, unkind, evil and selfish people love those who love them. Do we only love those who love us? What is the required difference?

We are to love those who do not love us, who do not know us, who do not conform to our ideals. We are to reach, to stretch, to bloom toward and into the lives and hearts of those who are called ‘unlovable’. A difficult requirement for most of us. 

There are compassionate souls who take my breathe away. They give, care, share and are compassionate toward everyone. It takes daily thought to try to touch the lives of people we don’t know. It is in giving time or money, prayer and thought to those that we can help. 

Being more like those individuals who keep their eyes on what is most important and not on themselves is vital.They may have a wounded heart, a failing body, circumstances beyond our imaginations and no hope. Our savior requires that we lift up each other. We can offer comfort, hope, peace and support because of what has been offered to us. 

Smile more. Care more. Love more. Forgive more. Challenge yourself more. Reach more. Accomplish more. BE more. 

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A wonderful sight! A body of glistening beautiful magical water. Water that nourishes and refreshes. Water that gives life to a tree that sits beside its edges. Water gives life to a tree that sits beside its edges. It becomes strong and vibrant. It produces and shows its strength.

How long has it been since you’ve been nourished and refreshed? Body, mind and spirit in unity must be fed life giving water in order to be vibrant and reflective. You then can be focused, nurturing others, living to your max with happiness and grace.

Choose to reflect on the lessons of your life, move through the pain rapidly, dwell in hope and peace.  When you are renewed you can think in brighter ways. You are replenished with those things you thought you lost. You are emboldened, encouraged and inspired. If this life isn’t lived to its fullest with kindness, fun and love from your heart; you will live in a stagnant pool of discontent, unhappiness and failure.

I choose to look to my Creator to feed my soul. After all, he gave me life. He loves me. He wants the best for me and for you. Jesus is my rock. I take his words and life examples but most of all I take his promises and aspire to remember them and live them fully.

Some people choose to live lives of only selfishness, sadness and negative power; it is futile! We all know people like this and do not want to be one. If you are slipping into that persona – run fast away from it. It does no one good. It harms. It strangles and it is diseased way to live.

Life, full and fragrant, is to be joyful, sweet and connected to others who understand body, mind and spirit unity. 

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Make someone’s day!

When a person says to you, “I love your smile” or “I’m so proud of you” you are flattered. You are supported, lifted, encouraged, empowered and you feel good! Help others feel that way! You might find out they really needed the kind words.

We even like it when they compliment our purse or our shoes! It’s easy to make us smile and feel great!

Giving compliments and notice to others is a nourishing drop of kindness.

Be sincere. Be aware that you can boost the self-esteem of others.

Nourish, refresh and enhance everyone around you. Leave criticism behind. Leave gossip behind.

Live. Lighten. Engage. Encourage. You will make a difference. Like a small treat in a child’s hand; eyes light up, the smiles begin and they are pleased and excited. As rain drops nourish plants and nature you can also be a life supporter.

So it is with people who you inspire in small ways. Acts of kindness never go unrewarded. Bloom more today than you did yesterday.

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I am too positive to be doubtful, too optimistic to be fearful and too determined to be defeated!

We should agree that doubt, negativity and defeat come together in one basket. They are rarely separate. Attitude is key.

Yes, be floored. Be shocked. Be sure. Your value is undeniable!

 Your worth is immeasurable. You are not junk. You are treasure. You have much to offer.

You have much to accomplish! Be floored that you are ‘that’ amazing. God does not make junk. He made you – uniquely you. I’ve said it before but some people do not believe it. They put themselves down. They diminish their achievements. They do not realize how they can touch the lives of others in a very powerful way.

Be confident. Be brave. Be strong. You have a mission, a very personal mission. Find it – live into it with the knowledge that you have much to offer. Never put yourself down. 

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Some students were asked to list what they thought were the present “Seven Wonders of the World.” Though there were some disagreements, the following received the most votes:

1. Egypt’s Great Pyramids

2. Taj Mahal

3. Grand Canyon

4. Panama Canal

5. Empire State Building

6. St. Peter’s Basilica

7. China’s Great Wall

While gathering the votes, the teacher noted that one student had not finished her paper yet. So she asked the girl if she was having trouble with her list. The girl replied, “Yes, a little. I couldn’t quite make up my mind because there were so many.”

The teacher said, “Well, tell us what you have, and maybe we can help.” The girl hesitated, then read, “I think the ‘Seven Wonders of the World’ are:

1. To See

2. To Hear

3. To Touch

4. To Taste

5. To Feel

6. To Laugh

7. And to Love.”

The room was so quiet you could have heard a pin drop. The things we overlook as simple and ordinary and that we take for granted are truly wondrous!

anonymous

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Partners in marriage quit believing and do not support each other – it’s too soon to quit. Many people work years at their careers to step to where they want to be. They do not give up. It’s too soon to quit. Put on a strong and fierce spirit to encourage those who are down, those who have lost hope. 

When I began to write my book I had a friend who said, “It is too difficult to get published; it’s almost impossible to do with a traditional publisher.”  I was saddened but thought of the reality of it. I did not stop writing though. I am published! This friend was one of the first people to buy my books. She said it gave her chills to see my name on the front cover! Don’t stop believing too soon!.

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Flying isn’t the hard part, landing in the net is. – Mario Zacchini

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Did the Wright Brothers give up? No and because of their tenacity, we can fly every day in the sky.

If you attend a Cirque de Soleil performance you know immediately that the acrobatic talent and commitment to practice far exceeds the thoughts of failure, falling and fear.  The actors are unbelievably courageous and strong. How did they get that way? Practice. Practice. Practice. Natural talent goes along with it. They prove that they are ingrained with passion for their craft. They are great at their performances and life’s work. You can be also!

You won’t always crash. Your experience and passion will be your guide wire. Research as much as possible and talk to people who have been there and accomplished what you want to do.

Living this life sometimes seems like a tightrope act. We walk on. We balance. We stabilize. We are fearful. We trust at times. That net can be friends, family, faith, hope, love, joy, grace and many other exciting things about life.

What is your net? Where do you go?

Be assured that falling flat and failing is part of life. Pick yourself up and move on. Be inspired in directions of focus and goals We are not meant to sit down and quit. You may need more support than others or someone to talk to about your situation. That’s not a bad idea!

We are to land in our nets, bounce back – while healing our wounds – and restructuring our thoughts. Then go - Bloom Girl Bloom, Bloom Boy Bloom –  in ways you never dreamed of. Never give up. Maybe something you try isn’t quite right for you so evaulate and stay strong.

You are so valuable and were created for great things. Your stage might not be large but your mission is to move through that small stuff with care and kindness. It all adds up. You may be given a larger portion of risk or challenge but you are capable.

Our rewards come from our risk-taking. We don’t need to be crazy about it but if you step out and fly – the landing will be so sweet. Your happiness increases, your confidence grows and your next step will be much easier. Try something you’ve always want to do – accomplish something small and move into the bigger scale.

Make a list of your challenges and your passions – then choose one and move forward with the idea. You can begin simply and learn to fly. You won’t crash land or be wounded when you begin after planning. Start in a way that you can manage. Expand. Grow. Bloom. Blossom profusely!

We can stay safe on the ground but life still throws trouble and worry at us. When  you decide to fly – reach for the sky.

Things you think impossible – are possible.

Fly. bloom. 

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