Live your own life. Make it the best it can be. Living through someone else or a fantasy
life does not get you to your maximum fulfillment.
Watching reality TV shows has become an addiction for many people. They live vicariously through other people or enjoy the entertainment value. Do we take these participants seriously? Do we wonder if it is all staged? Cameras can tell a much larger story or leave out vital chapters.
Living like the Kardashians or the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills is impossible for most women today. Do you see value in their lives? How about morality? Honesty and integrity? Do you see fun and wish it were you? You also have to buy into their life philosophies if you want their lives. It is their right to be who they are and show it to the world. More importantly, being ignited from the inside, as ships that sail our own course and inspire others, is essential.
A famous person is quoted saying, “I wish all people could be rich and famous in their lifetime and then they would see it’s not the answer.” When women wish they were someone else, it disturbs me. Of course, a better income and an easier path might be advantageous but what can they learn along the way?
Live your own life fully and richly. Work on the inside. Let your own light shine. Don’t follow someone else. Reaching for stars that are not in your orbit just weighs you down and tires you out. Living with dreams of being someone else will not get you to your personal heights. You will not be happy. Choose authenticity, values, truth, love, care and compassion with those you touch every day. Be someone who gleams with value.
Others will envy your being, your life, your attitude and truth. Help them live into their best. Show them that whatever life has for them is enough – although dreams and opportunity are on every corner. Explore. Reach. Be happy with who you were created to be. You can always be a ‘better, more productive, more creative you’... but BE – YOU. Life is unique because you are here. Earth is better because you exist. God is pleased when we follow His plan for us.
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